Your attractions are not based on your childhood or your hormones or your karma or your wounds. They are based on your multidimensional energetic signature. Your souls tone.It's the music you send out. Some can hear it. And you hear theirs. It has nothing to do with anything more esoteric or elusive than that. It's a vibrational universe. And we fall and rise to the symphony that our hearts generate. You are not looking for your Soul-mate, you are listening for your song-mate.