Don't be offended if I delete your message. I clean my messages every once in awhile to keep the page organized.

Please don't invite me or leave a message if:
1) This is what gets to me most of all. If you send me a invite, please, please. please (!) have a reason for inviting me. Don't just say it was "Just to talk". This gives us nothing. If you enjoyed my interests, great. That gives us something to talk about. So, just to sum it up, please have a reason for inviting me besides "just chatting" (Unless I already know you, then I'd love to chat!).
2) You don't use proper grammar. Am I crazy about this? No. I just realize that u is not a word. I also realize that you should capitalize the letter of every sentence. It does not take that much more time to make your sentences readable. It is unpleasant to have to figure out what a sentence means. It's a show of intelligence as well as respect to just type out what you mean to say.
3) Don't message me with chain letters. They don't work. Why you think they would work is beyond me. The internet does not have these odd phenomena that many seem to think it has.
4) Don't send me a message with "Hey cool page" if you don't want to talk/don't really mean it.

I know this seems like a lot but I've been around for awhile and I just like to keep everything as tidy as possible. When I get an invite I just like to be sure that the person inviting me has a good reason to talk.